Domestic Violence &
Sexual Assault

By  Detective Sergeant Lisa St. Angelo

Ellen Bucci
Law Enforcement Advocate for the
Smithfield Police Department


Domestic Violence & Sexual Assault
401-766-3628

24-Hour Victims of Crime Helpline
1-800-494-8100

 

Day One
401-421-4100

www.dayoneri.org

Sojourner House
401-658-4334  

www.sojourner-house.org

National Sexual Assault Hotline
1-800-656-HOPE

www.rainn.org

National Domestic Violence Hotline
1-800-799-SAFE
www.ndvh.org

 

The Law Enforcement Advocate’s services are free and are available to people of every age, gender, race, national origin, ethnicity, religion, sexual orientation, relationship or familial status, physical or mental ability. 

Services Available to Victims of
Domestic Violence / Sexual Assault

Phone Support

  • For victims/survivors, their non-offending family, friends and others affected by domestic and sexual violence 

In-person Accompaniment & Support

  • For victims/survivors of domestic and sexual violence at the hospital emergency room, police station and throughout court proceedings 

Information & Referral Network

  • Listing of community services and local Domestic Violence and Rape Crisis centers specializing in trauma issues 

Professional Training

  • For teachers/students, police, court personnel, medical staff, social services personnel and others involved in dealing with the issue of domestic and sexual violence.


The following information is meant to be a brief overview about Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault. For additional information, refer to the resources available at the top of the page. 

DOMESTIC VIOLENCE

Domestic Violence is a pattern of violent or dominant behaviors used by a partner to gain control of a relationship, and it goes far beyond physical injury. It is against the law for your spouse, intimate partner, ex-partner, or a family member to: 

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Injure you

bullet Threaten you so that you fear for your physical safety
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Force or pressure you into sexual acts.

bullet Destroy or threaten to destroy your physical property.
bullet Enter your home against your will if you are living separately. 

Domestic violence is something uncomfortable to talk about, and it is a hard pattern to escape, but it also something that can be stopped. Domestic Violence is in our neighborhood. It is in our community. It can happen to anyone, but it does not have to happen to you. 

When a law enforcement officer responds to a domestic violence situation and has probable cause to believe that a crime has been committed, the officer shall arrest and take into custody the alleged perpetrator of the crime.  

The alleged perpetrator will be brought before a bail commissioner or another officer of the court. A No-Contact Order (NCO) will be issued. The NCO means that the defendant may not contact you in person, by telephone, or by mail.  

On the next business day, the defendant will be arraigned before a judge. The judge will schedule a second hearing (pretrial conference), usually within a few weeks, at which the defendant may change his/her plea to guilty, not guilty, or no contest (nolo contendre). 

A temporary restraining order (TRO) is also available to victims of domestic violence at the Family or District Court (located at the Garrahy Complex in Providence) whether or not there has been an arrest. A person may apply for a TRO if he/she has been a victim of physical violence or is in fear for their physical safety. If a TRO is approved, the perpetrator is served with the TRO and is not allowed to have any contact with the victim. A violation is an arrestable offence. Some people choose to have both a NCO and a TRO because a TRO can offer added protection by giving temporary custody of children to the victim; by ordering the perpetrator to pay temporary child support; and/or by ordering the perpetrator to vacate the home, if shared with the victim.  

SEXUAL ASSAULT

Sexual assault is any kind of sexual contact without consent. (This includes forcing someone to watch pornography or sexual acts.) Consent is “yes” without force or power. Force or power includes emotional coercion, (bribes, pressuring, lying, tricks) implicit coercion, (social position, size/strength, age) verbal threats, physical force without a weapon or physical force with a weapon. Exceptions to consent include age (the age of consent in Rhode Island is 16.) and being mentally incapacitated due to drugs or alcohol. In addition, a person who is incapable of understanding the nature of a sexual act due to a mental impairment cannot give consent. 

Sexual violence happens to all people. 1 in 3 women and 1 in 6 men are sexually assaulted in their lifetime. Most perpetrators are known and trusted. 85% of perpetrators are acquaintances such as a parent, relative or friend and that can make the sexual abuse even more confusing. There is no “right” response to sexual violence. Sexual assault is a life-threatening situation and whatever you did to survive was the right thing to do. Remember, submitting to sexual violence is not the same thing as “consenting.” Sexual violence is never the victim’s fault and no one deserves to be sexually assaulted. 

If you have been sexually assaulted, consider the following:

  • Medical Help
    Every victim of sexual assault should receive immediate medical attention. Being seen by medical personnel does not mean you have to report the crime. There is a specific sexual assault examination that addresses your medical needs, as well as the collection of evidence that may be useful should you decide to report the crime and press charges. Also, you should consider being tested for pregnancy, sexually transmitted diseases and AIDS. Medical evidence can be collected up to 72 hours after an assault. There is no cost to the victim who has no insurance for the exam. The exam can be done at any hospital emergency room.
     
  • The Police
    Sexual assault is a crime. It is your decision whether or not to file a police report. If you decide to report the assault, the report should be filed with the police department in the city/town where the assault occurred, or with the State Police.

A trained sexual assault crisis advocate can accompany you to the hospital and/or police station if you wish. The advocate is there to offer you support and answer your questions. Services are available regardless of whether or not you decide to report the assault to the police. An advocate is available through the 24-hour Victims of Crime Helpline at 1.800.494.8100.

ABOUT ELLEN BUCCI: 

Prior to accepting the Northern Rhode Island Law Enforcement Advocate position, Ellen attended Rhode Island College and interned for a year and a half at the Elizabeth Buffum Chace Center.  There she primarily provided support to victims of domestic violence and interned directly for the elder advocate.  In doing so, she developed a unique understanding of a less known area of abuse, elder abuse. 

Ellen graduated from Rhode Island College in 2006 with a double Bachelor’s degree in Justice Studies and Psychology.  She also obtained a minor in Sociology.  Ellen possesses excellent communication skills and has the ability to increase a victim’s comfort level with the criminal justice process while providing crisis intervention services for the victim.  Ellen is very eager and looks forward to assisting victims of domestic violence and sexual assault as the Northern Rhode Island Law Enforcement Advocate.

 
 


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